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So I’ve been deep in this online training the last few days, learning how to host transformational retreats for women. (Yes, retreats are definitely coming in the future, and yes, I’m ridiculously excited about it.) But big surprise to me: this retreat training, it’s teaching me so much that has nothing to do with retreats.
Honestly, it’s blowing my mind.
I mean, yes, I’m learning about logistics, and legalities, and sales pages, and pricing and all the details to host a truly transformational retreat. But it’s also shifting something in me personally. It’s creating this total mindset upgrade that’s touching everything, how I approach my business, how I hold space for others, even how I talk to myself in the quiet moments.
And it reminded me of something I believe, but sometimes forget to live out loud:
There is always more to learn. Always more opportunity for growth. Always more to love about yourself.
Even when you think you’ve hit a groove, there’s another layer. Another level. Another part of you waiting to be discovered, healed, or expanded.
And I don’t mean that in a “you’re never enough” kind of way because You Are Always Enough. I mean it in a “you are SO full of potential it’s kind of magic” kind of way.
This experience has been proof to me that healing and growth are not one-time checkboxes. You don’t “graduate” from self-love. You don’t hit a point where the inner work is done and you just coast forever in bliss.
Nope, it’s an ongoing journey. And it gets richer the more you lean into it.
I think sometimes we assume that personal development has an endpoint. Like, once you read the books, cry through the journaling prompts, set some boundaries, and learn to say nice things to yourself in the mirror, boom, you’re good.
But the truth is, growth is like layers of an onion. (Except, you know, less stinky and with fewer tears… sometimes.)
Every time I think I’ve got a good handle on things, something new opens up, some fresh insight, a different way of seeing myself, a new way to show up in the world. It’s humbling and beautiful and a little mind-melty at times. But mostly, it’s affirming.
You are never done evolving. And that’s a good thing.
So whether you’re knee-deep in your own healing journey, or just starting to dip your toes in the self-love pool, remember: you don’t have to rush. You don’t have to “arrive.” You just have to stay open. Curious. Willing.
Because sometimes the biggest shifts come from the things you weren’t even trying to shift.
This retreat training? It’s meant to teach me how to support your transformation. But in the process, it’s transforming me too. And that’s the beautiful ripple effect of doing this kind of work, it touches everything.
Here’s to never stopping.
Here’s to more growth, more softness, more joy.
Here’s to learning something new, again and again.
Remember, You Are Worthy and You Are Loved!
Cheryl